moving to today's topic as the title say , its about forgiveness , wow what a heavy word its , well to be true to myself yes i know that its a very good virtue to have with in you but hard also ( of why all the things we been ask to do , is always seem hard to us ?) . Dont know but these questions do come na , like people say - control your anger , dont lie , be truthful , no illicit sex , oh god and all these things .... yea i know they are tough !!!!!!
anyhow coming back to forgiveness --- when ever i hear this one word first person come across my mind is Jesus --- we all know why ---- O Father , forgive them , cos they themselves dont know what they are doing ???
2) Mahatama gandhi said -- if any one slap u , put ur other cheek also in front of him ( as if inviting him that please sir am a punching bag use me as u like )
yea and recently i think may be a year back there was one political rally in which Varun Gandhi said -- ( about the above statement by Mr Gandhi )-- that isse bewakufi wali baat maine suni nahi aaj tak .
yea i know its always tough , why i shud forgive ... ????
we all been plaqued by the same question in ours life , isnt it ???
i have same instant in my childhood may be when i was in class 3rd , i was having a class test on SST , and i have studied for it (am not that studious , but yea sometime i do study ) i knew the answers , and a guy sitting next to me is a nice frnd of mine , and he didnt knew the answers of any , so i was helping him in his test paper , but what u can expect from me , as a matter of providence teacher caught us as our answer was exact ditto copied version ( thats why people say ki nakal me bhi akal chahiye ) so teacher ( Richa Mam ) asked both of us that who copied from whom , and i was foolish ( i was thinking he is my frnd if i taken his name , so he will get punished , so i kept quiet ) then teacher asked the other guy ( and he said mam , yitin copied from mine ) .................. WHAT ..... BOOOMM .... I WAS SHOCKED ....!
WHAT HAPPEN TO THIS GUY ? (BUT THAT DAY LEARNT A LESSON , NEVER TRUST ANYONE )
AM STILL NOT ABLE TO GET THIS OUT OF MY HEAD , NOW I WANNA TELL YOU ANOTHER STORY , AFTER WHICH I WILL ASK U ONE QUESTION .
Two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey, they had an argument and one friend slapped the other one in the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand, "today my best friend slapped me in the face”.
They kept on walking until they found an oasis where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him. After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone, "today my best friend saved my life".
The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, "after I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone. Why?" the friend replied, "when someone hurts us we should write it down in sand, where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it".
Learn to write your hurt in the sand of forgiveness and carve the good by others in stone.
Now the problem is am not able to write this on the sand , so that it can washed away from my memory ! what i should do .... tell me ... waiting for your comments ....
