FORGIVE - OR NOT !!

Hello frnds , i know am writing after a long gap of time as i completely forgotten of this blog thing for about a time and then i found that few people do indeed read some of my post and liked it , am thankful to all of them and like them to share their views also with me .

moving to today's topic as the title say , its about forgiveness , wow what a heavy word its , well to be true to myself yes i know that its a very good virtue to have with in you but hard also ( of why all the things we been ask to do , is always seem hard to us ?) . Dont know but these questions do come na , like people say - control your anger , dont lie , be truthful , no illicit sex , oh god and all these things .... yea i know they are tough !!!!!!

anyhow coming back to forgiveness --- when ever i hear this one word first person come across my mind is Jesus --- we all know why ---- O Father , forgive them , cos they themselves dont know what they are doing ???


2) Mahatama gandhi said -- if any one slap u , put ur other cheek also in front of him ( as if inviting him that please sir am a punching bag use me as u like )

yea and recently i think may be a year back there was one political rally in which Varun Gandhi said -- ( about the above statement by Mr Gandhi )-- that isse bewakufi wali baat maine suni nahi aaj tak .


yea i know its always tough , why i shud forgive ... ????




we all been plaqued by the same question in ours life , isnt it ???

i have same instant in my childhood may be when i was in class 3rd , i was having a class test on SST , and i have studied for it (am not that studious , but yea sometime i do study ) i knew the answers , and a guy sitting next to me is a nice frnd of mine , and he didnt knew the answers of any , so i was helping him in his test paper , but what u can expect from me , as a matter of providence teacher caught us as our answer was exact ditto copied version ( thats why people say ki nakal me bhi akal chahiye ) so teacher ( Richa Mam ) asked both of us that who copied from whom , and i was foolish ( i was thinking he is my frnd if i taken his name , so he will get punished , so i kept quiet ) then teacher asked the other guy ( and he said mam , yitin copied from mine ) .................. WHAT ..... BOOOMM .... I WAS SHOCKED ....!

WHAT HAPPEN TO THIS GUY ? (BUT THAT DAY LEARNT A LESSON , NEVER TRUST ANYONE )


AM STILL NOT ABLE TO GET THIS OUT OF MY HEAD , NOW I WANNA TELL YOU ANOTHER STORY , AFTER WHICH I WILL ASK U ONE QUESTION .

Two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey, they had an argument and one friend slapped the other one in the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand, "today my best friend slapped me in the face”.

They kept on walking until they found an oasis where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him. After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone, "today my best friend saved my life".

The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, "after I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone. Why?" the friend replied, "when someone hurts us we should write it down in sand, where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it".

Learn to write your hurt in the sand of forgiveness and carve the good by others in stone.

Now the problem is am not able to write this on the sand , so that it can washed away from my memory ! what i should do .... tell me ... waiting for your comments ....

Muhammad

Muhammad

Muhammad is said to be the crown of muslims. He is like light of God for muslims. On whom, Allah sent His last message; this is Muhammad, who is the key to get Allah.

But we could not understand, his self proclaimed prophethood, how can one claim himself the best? If you don’t want to be the fuel of hell fire then follow me! Is this right? It rather seems the game played by Muhammad!

Until he was alone, no one was with him, he preached, for you your religion for me mine! Everyone is equal for Allah as He has created us all. No flower of this garden (humanity) is special from the other for God.

But then he started seeing dreams of heaven, in which virgins are great in numbers to please him! Then he said to others that I am the only prophet of Allah, it is just my path through which you can get heaven. These claims catalyzed the minds of lusty men who desired virtuous girls.

We have heard that escaping out of enemies is called Hizrat (Arabic word, means escape). Prophet Muhammad had to do this when he had to flee from Mecca due to his enemies. But is this bravery? Brave man is the one who fights with enemies irrespective of their number and does not escape because of fear!

Now he said that the only religion which is correct is of Allah. Rests all are fake. If you don’t believe in Islam then Allah will become your enemy. So accept me as your prophet because I am the only person who is truthful.

Allah made lawful to muslims the women of others. Muslims can abduct the mothers and sisters of others as booty of war, they can be offered as gift to the fellow muslims for fulfilling their sexual desires. Though muslim women are well dressed and well guarded in hijab, women of other faiths are commodities to be sell in the market!

Oh! Prophet this is your true colour. We have seen you and your message as well. How can the acts of yours be differentiated from that of Satan’s? You even married a girl of 6, who was like your daughter!

What can be done to this message called Islam except to demolish it? Should not every supporter of this barbaric cult be crushed? And those who are ready to reject this falsehood and want to become humans, we welcome them to humanity from our hearts.

spiritual seekers: RESISTING TEMPTATION !!!!

spiritual seekers: RESISTING TEMPTATION !!!!: "Most of the time the hardest thing in front of us is to how to resist temptations now the temptation can be different for different people ..."

RESISTING TEMPTATION !!!!

Most of the time the hardest thing in front of us is to how to resist temptations

now the temptation can be different for different people like in some people like alcohol , food , non veg . girls . porn and whatever the list goes on and on ........


some times we feel why so many temptations and what we need to do , do we need to indulge ourselves into that ?? well although scriptures restrain us from doing that .

well people who say why to care for scriptures , then to those i will say that are old and valuable writings which till this date holds their importance and are guiding us in the real manner to the path of righteoussness

now the other ques comes up is HOW ... how to resist it ??


The simple technique for not being victimized by the tantalizing temptations which bombard us at every minute in this vicious age of Kali is to flip your consciousness from illusion to reality.

The reality channel has much better programming than the illusion channel.

Reality offers us eternity, knowledge, and bliss while illusion can only offer us temporality, ignorance, and misery. Therefore you should use your intelligence and not be carried away by the false glitter of illusion.

All we have to do is to flip our conciousness to reality is by in constant remembrance of lord , to always absorbed in his divine pastimes and always remembring our relation with him .

God help us thru Frndz

I know what you might be thinking , but its true actually , as depicted in old stories god send angels and all , those so called angels are people whom we dont know but even then they come in our life and help us selflessly , to all those people i give the name as - Frnz

As in Bible also in psalm 55:22 it says
'Friends are God's way of taking care of us.'

as described God is the one who help us in many ways , when ever in doubt or under stress we have ssome thing in our heart which guide us ,
remember the feeling when u r confused and suddenly you find a way out of your problem
suddenly you know what u need to do
suddenly you feel you know the answer ( well this do happen with me in exams , i remember my school days when am sitting and thinking that i dont know the answer and within moment something strikes and u feel oh this is done in this way )

what u think who helped you at this moment ???

i remember Archimedes he is doing a research on something , day and night he has devoted to his research , so many experiments in the lab going on and on with work but not coming to any conclusion , he worked hard but each time some thing or the other troubled him and he was not able to understand
and then one day he is taking bath in the bath tub and he shouted " eureka . eureka "


oh these words have gone down in history ( by the way , is eureka is his wife name ??)

well we all know what happened next . so who helped him cos the answer he was searching for he was not able to get and then suddenly he find the answer in the bath tub . strange huh !


well so what you think who helped him ???

its actually paramatma who help us in our heart to strike a solution out of the problem so thats the way he help us

now u will ask how we find the solution to the problems ? Answer is we have to search for the answers inside oursleves by praying , praying is seriously connecting media for us to our lord
its a telephone connection or a interent line to our supreme god

now we see many examples when god sent angels to help humans to guide us in a better way , to make our lives blissfull ??? but now you will say when god has sent angels cos he is not sending these days ?

so to this i say -

At this time of year ( or you can say kaliyuga )
angels are really busy so sometime God uses Regular people

and these regular people are our frnds - just try to remember when your frnd helped you , when you were in emergency

Now the parmatma is our real frnd who is there sitting in our heart , always with us , and is like a constant companion of us who is in our heart guiding us as this is ryt do this , dont go there its wrong these all instructions come from that supersoul of ours staying in our heart .

Do You Have It in U !

well as many people say :
1) we living in modern society ,
2) we living in 21st century n
3) then what does spirituality has to offer !


To all those people i just wanna say that this blog is all for spiritual seekers , and then again i need also to remind you , as i have seen in many communities , group discussions and blogs where people are fighting on their god scheme , as hindus are fighting on man controversial things and unnecessary wasting time in useless quarrels , when at the same time they can have uttilise that time in singing praises of lord or to glorify him , Cos as i have seen in Srimad Bhagwatam , its full of Glorification of Lord .

So we are here discussing spirituality and spiritual qualities and not religions , we dont label a person and biased him as following this or that religion , rather we believe in spiritual love of god and seeking that love of god , based on various religions teachings we discuss that in a friendly manner and try to understand Love .

so as my title frame goes on what i wanna ask you is do you have this in you , to share love feelings and be in good frame of mind as we have seen to understand something we have to be humble , and give respect then only we can learn - as depicted in Bhagwad Gita .

Arjuna also become disciple of krsna then he get the divine instructions of Lord , am not asking to be a disciple of someone and things like that , my sole point is to have that qualities of disciple and understand things in a humble way , and then we see we get the love of God .